Crisis Counseling From a Biblical Perspective
Perhaps the
greatest observations made of Jesus’ ministry and counseling abilities is that
it is a process (Wright, 2011). Jesus
did not see people during scheduled appointments or for just a few moments but rather,
he spent time with them and gave instruction to them. As a Christian, one of the greatest characteristics
that we can have while dealing with victims of a crisis is compassion. Victims of trauma are frequently in a
disordered state, and showing compassion to them can help to calm them. It also demonstrates to others a desire to
help them ease their suffering. Jesus
was also accepting of others in whatever physical or mental state they may be
in. Demonstrating acceptance of victims
creates comfort without condemnation (Wright, 2011).
Christ
created a sense of worth in others by putting their needs above the rules and
regulations established by religious leaders and governments (Wright,
2011). Immediately and in the days that
follow, victims begin to question their actions (Ruback, Clark, & Warner,
2014). Giving them a sense of worth
without judgment also facilitates the healing process. Also important is to help others accept
responsibility for their need to change before any progress can be made. Encouraging change in victims can give them
hope that a change can be made and can create peace of mind (Wright, 2011).
I do
believe it is important to discuss salvation with victims of a crisis, although
in the immediate aftermath it may not be appropriate. Redirecting their focus from the trauma to
more important things, like the rewards of Heaven, can produce a joy filled heart
(Wright, 2011). Christian counselors can
also model the behavior of Jesus and recognize that they are teachers of God’s
word and speak with the authority of Christ.
Jesus was not arrogant or boisterous when he spoke, he was authoritative
without being an authoritarian. He has
the backing of God and Heaven behind him Christians in the helping profession
have this same authority. It is equally
important, however, to know when to use scripture and to know the right
scripture to use. Above all, Christian
helpers have to be obedient to God, asking God for the right thought or action,
and be faithful in believing that God will provide the necessary tools to be
used at the appropriate time. The power
of prayer during such times cannot be underestimated. Praying before, during, and after meeting
with victims often times produces the communion with God that we as counselors
will need to effectively help others.
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References
Ruback, R. B.,
Clark, V. A., & Warner, C. (2014). Why are crime victims at
risk of being victimized again? Substance use, depression, and offending as
mediators of the victimization-revictimization link. Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, 29(1), 157-185.
Wright, H. N.
(2011). The complete guide to crisis and trauma counseling: What to do and
say when it matters most!. Grand Rapids, MI: Bethany House Publishers.
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