Pornography and Erotica

Determining the differences between pornography and erotica can be difficult.  Pornography comes from the Greek root porne which means a “female captive” or “prostitute” (Balswick & Balswick, 2008).  Pornography involves aggressive, degrading sex which exerts dominance.  Today’s culture has expanded the meaning to include sexually explicit art, films, and other works.  While some would label pornography as being one’s personal opinion, others would label it as anything that can be sexually stimulating.  Both labels, according to Balswick & Balswick (2008) would be incorrect.  Erotica, on the other hand, celebrates the human sexual experience.  While erotica may be sexually stimulating, it is not meant to be degrading to women.  Pornography is always dehumanizing and biblically unacceptable while erotica can be affectionate and involve committed sexuality (Balswick & Balswick, 2008).

            The church can be afraid of acknowledging the topic of sexuality because of the many broad definitions used by society.  Many people may have difficulty getting past the negative guilt and shame associated with inauthentic sexuality and for this reason, I believe the church should set the standard for sex education.  The Song of Solomon celebrates human love and the sensuous and mystical qualities of love.  It creates a “lesson plan” for Sunday morning studies on how relationships can build a flourish.  I believe men and women should be educated by the church and fellow believers in a co-ed type environment.  Both genders should receive the same message that pornography is degrading and erotica involves sensual affection.  Co-ed groups can help foster accountability between couples and promote a strong biblical foundation for relationships to grow.

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Reference

Balswick, J. K., & Balswick, J. O. (2008). Authentic human sexuality: An integrated Christian approach (2nd ed.). Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic.